Hey Guys!

20 12 2009

Hey guys! My name is Kelly and my goal in this blog is to talk to you about girls. That doesn’t mean just dating relationships, but also friendships.

I am in highschool and something I have learned in the past few years is that our society gives us the wrong ideas about all kinds of relationships, but the most distorted is the idea of relationships between guys and girls.  Movies, and T.V. shows and magazines and any other type of media all tells us that dating is just something you do. There is no purpose except for immediate pleasure. Guys, you tend to use girls to get what you want out of us and usually thats physical stuff. As for girls, usually we want love. To feel loved, to be loved, to feel beautiful and to feel wanted. Sometimes, the reason to date is simply a status thing.  But none of these reasons depict the purpose of dating. The purpose of dating is to find that person that you will spend the rest of your life with. Our relationships should be honoring to God (1 Thess. 4:4) and bring HIM glory! The way you treat your girl (space) friends tells people A LOT about you! If you disrespect them, talk about them in a perverted way, and stuff like that its shows your character or possibly the lack of.

I feel like I can blame you all I want for the way you treat me and other girls…but really, in some ways I can’t at all. You haven’t been taught HOW. Christ wants you to treat us wayyyy differently than our society wants you to. The Bible says to “Show proper respect to everyone.” 1 Peter 2:17 and to love one another (John 15:12-13)

Hopefully you will learn what God’s plan is for your relationships. I hope to encourage you and to help you through this crazy time of life we call highschool! =)




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