Flirty Girls

2 10 2010

Guys, don’t let us flirt with you. Or at least don’t engage in or encourage it. I have girl friends who flirt with anything male and it drives me crazy! Today for instance, “Jenny,” who is one of the girls that flirts with all the guys, was flirting with “Peter,”  and I could tell that he was thinking more of the situation then she was. Jenny  knew that he liked her, but still continued to flirt with him. She was leading him on, which is totally mean. I honestly felt sorry for the Peter because she does not like him in the same way. She wants the attention and flirting is fun for her because she gets it that way. It’s too bad she’s using him to feel good about herself.

When you sense that a girl is flirting with you and it’s just because she wants the attention, be nice but in the process don’t flirt. We all know how to flirt, and we know when we are doing it, so just don’t flirt back. When you do, it just gives the girl that more of a reason to do it, because her way of getting attention and feeling good about herself is working.

So, don’t let girls win on this one. I know it’s hard because you like the attention just like we do. But when you go along with it, it encourages us to continue to play with your emotions, and that’s just not cool.

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8 10 2010
How Not To Flirt « How To Fight Like A Girl

[…] week, Kelly at Unaverage Relationships posted this blog about not flirting. It got me thinking – how do we not flirt. I don’t know about you, but […]

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